Archive for the ‘Family’ Category

Air Force Graduation

Wednesday, May 30th, 2007

I finally got to Colorado Springs, arrived around 11 pm yesterday… 10 hours after I should have. Graduation was awesome. I was glad to be there to see my brothers son graduate from one of the exclusive universities in the nation. The graduation was filled with tradition, military ceremony, and proud moments for an uncle. To see the cadets march into the stadium in perfect form, was just inspiring. To see some of the “celebrations” was quite funny. Then to hear the thunderbirds flying overhead just as the cadets tossed their caps in the air surprised me… And the timing of the flyover was incredible. Which took me by complete surprise.

I was so glad to be there to see the graduation of my nephew. The memory of my brother Doug was very heavy there for me. He would have been so proud of his son, I know Tammie was beaming to see her son graduate, I just wish Mom and Dad could have been there. Dad was admitted to the hospital Sunday for a heart problem. But other than that, it was good to be there, even though it took 18 hours of travel time from the time I left my house to the time I got to the hotel….

Traffic on 95 sucks, but I got wireless

Tuesday, May 29th, 2007

I am sitting at BWI waiting on standby because some moron can’t drive and got in a wreck, and every idiot has to look as they drive by on I-95. So I was able to squeeze one hour of driving into two hours and I missed my flight by about 20 minutes, so I get to spend the next 5 hours waiting for the next flight. I hate flying. At least I can get wireless via Boingo.

If I miss standy no real sense in going to Colorado Springs. I would just be there with enough time to get my luggage say Hi/Bye and jump back on a plane. This really sucks.

Graduation is Here

Saturday, May 26th, 2007

The day that we’ve all been waiting for a long time is here. I finally graduated. I walked and received my Bachelor’s degree in Business/Accounting from Liberty University. With the passing of our Chancellor, Dr. Jerry Falwell just days before graduation made graduation even more memorable; one we’ll never forget. There was laughing and crying as they showed a video clip of Jerry’s life. While this graduation is over, I’m certainly looking forward to Amanda’s High School graduation in a few weeks and Erika’s college graduation the year after. I’m looking forward to utilizing my degree with my current employer. However, the most exciting thing that I’m looking forward to is to be able to read my novels instead of textboks. The stack was getting pretty high. Pictures of the graduation are available online.

The dangers of getting the lowest bid

Friday, March 30th, 2007

My wife and I wanted to build out our basements last year. We contacted a few contractors and asked for bids on the project. The bids ranged from upwards of $20K to under $10K. Being cheap, we took the bid under $10K. First mistake.

We checked the guy’s references, and even visited one of the remodels that he did. My first thought was, and it was later to be proved correct, that he does not give much attention to detail. But I brushed that aside since the room that we saw looked fine, no glaring defects, and we hired the guy. He started In October of 2006 and made great progress… for a few weeks. Then he stopped showing up. No phone calls, nothing. We called him and asked, “Um… where are you?” He had injured his leg shortly before he started on the basement and the doctor told him to take it easy. Ok fine.. the guy has a bum leg.. give him some slack. After about two weeks we called again, he said that he would have his son finish the drywall and that he was still on track to finish by Christmas.

His son arrived around Thanksgiving and did the majority of the drywall… Alright now fast forward to about a week before Christmas. With nothing done since Thanksgiving, we asked for a face to face and inquired about the basement. We were going to be out for Christmas we asked for the house keys back. Well we did not get a face to face but did get the keys back. We should have gotten another contractor but we were concerned that no one would come in after this guy to finish the job.

We contacted him after we got back in town, and gave him back the keys. He insisted that his leg was ok and he was going to finish the basement in short order. Well to make a long story short, he did not restart on the job until almost the end of February, after we called him and said we wanted to talk about whether he was going to finish the job. Almost full month and a half after christmas.
He did not have an eye for finishing details. For example, he did not use any electrical outlet boxes in the builtin entertainment center to manage the 6 speaker wires, two ethernet cables, the cable for the TV and all the wires needed for the subwoofer. Instead he cut two holes in the back and pulled all the wires through. He was going to leave it like that until I pressed him on that issue.

Our basement is finished, but we will never use that contractor again. There are many other items that we were less that pleased with, and in the end we wanted him to finish and hire someone else to “clean up the mess”. We still do not have carpet down, but we hired someone to do that. We also hired another contractor to redo the fireplace. And this contractor did a fantastic job on that. Him we are going to rehire for other odd jobs we need.

From now on I will only hire someone who has a personal recommendation from someone we know, or follow my initial hunch on the work he has completed in the past.

I want that job

Monday, February 26th, 2007

So Saturday the weather and news sites – weather.com, nbc4.com, wusa9.com – were all saying we should get rain with some wintry mix Sunday. Well, we got 6 inches of white fluffy wintry mix that i had to shovel off the driveway. That is right the weather guys all missed that we were getting 6 inches of snow Sunday. I wish I could be in a job where I could be wrong 50% of the time.

There were some big fluffy flakes that came down. Perfect snow for making snowballs and snowmen. It was awesome.

Snow is Finally Here!

Wednesday, February 14th, 2007

After a few months into winter, we finally got a real taste of snow.  Today, we got between 2-5 inches of snow/ice.   When we woke up this morning, everything looked so pretty covered in white.  It was quite a relaxing day.  I enjoyed staying home and doing a little baking.  Of course, no one enjoyed going outside to shovel the snow, but it’s a job every one had to do.

Back to Work

Saturday, January 6th, 2007

To some people the holidays are finally over. To others, it is just beginning. Today, January 6th, Puerto Rico celebrate the Holiday called Three Kings Day. This is in celebration of when the three magis brought gifts to baby Jesus. Puerto Ricans continue the holiday celebration throughout the month of January.

In the US, the holidays are finally over and it’s back to work. After a nice break, we have to resume our normal schedule. This was a busy week at work. After being gone for almost a week and half, the mail has piled up and the workload has been heavy.

Sick Puppy

Tuesday, January 2nd, 2007

I took the dog to his vet for a follow up checkup.  The vet confirmed from the xrays that the stones were back in his bladder and he would have to have surgery to have them removed. The vet believes that it is struvite stones.  The surgery will cost approximately $1300.  This is the second time that we’ve had this procedure performed.  The last time was in 2004.  I wonder if there is a way to have the stones dissolved to prevent him from going under again.  I’ve read several articles about remedies to have the stones dissolved so they can be passed but not sure if they work.  My next step is to schedule the surgery.

New Year

Monday, January 1st, 2007

This is the last posting for 2006. On New Year’s Eve, we went to church for worship service that morning and in the evening we went to a friend’s house to welcome the new year. We spend the evening playing sequence and Cranium–the old folks vs the young kids. The old folks did pretty good. We won some and lost some. But overall, the old folks are the Champions. When it got closer to midnight, we turned the TV on and watch the ball drop in New York City. We toasted the New Year with Sparkling Cider. It will be great to see what this new year has in store for us.

Traveling Home

Friday, December 29th, 2006

We got up Friday and had breakfast. My mom had made us some Rellenos to cook before heading home. We cooked them for lunch and headed home soon thereafter. Our travel home was long, but it always seems to be when you head home. I was looking forward to seeing my dog. We made it home in about 10 hours.

When we got home, I immediately, let the dog outside. He seemed to be going for a while. I kept calling him, but he wouldn’t come. When we finally got him inside, I notice he was acting somewhat different. He kept squatting and leaking some brownish fluid. He seemed to continue to do this, so I took him outside. He seemed like he was trying to go but nothing would come out. I immediately called the vet’s office and took him to a nearby hospital. The took some x-rays and it was just as we suspected. He had stones in his urethra and in his bladder. The vet said that he was partially obstructed and if it wasn’t taken care of he could die. The options he presented was we could have the stones flushed back into his system, and then go in and perform surgery to remove the stones. He had a total of 6 stones. Both procedures were very costly. One would cost $760 and the other $1200. We opted to have the stones flushed back to alleviate the pain so that he could resume normal operation and schedule an appointment with our regular vet. The vet couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t want to have the surgery done since he had to put him to sleep. I felt that the dog was in enough stress during the week during our absence. The flushing of the stones went well and he was done in about 1 hour. It was about 3AM when he was released. It was funny because when he came out of surgery, he was very tired and could bare stand up. I picked him up and took him to the car and when we got home I carried him upstairs into our room and laid him next to my bed and went to sleep.

Christmas Day

Monday, December 25th, 2006

Christmas day was spent with the family. My sister had an appendectomy and was not able to join us until later on in the day. We had already opened all our gifts on Christmas Eve. We woke up and had our usual Christmas breakfast of Buscuits with Gravy. For dinner, mom made the traditional Puerto Rican dish of pernil, arroz con gandules, and lets not forget the dessert–flan. Everyone was playing with their Christmas gifts and awaiting the next day until they could use their gift cards to buy more stuff.

Christmas Eve

Monday, December 25th, 2006

We spent the day playing dominoes and making cutout cookies, buckeyes, and chocolate covered pretzels. Instead of making breakfast this morning, I baked the cookies that we were going to decorate later that day. Mitzie and Shirley decorated the cookies throughout the day and made the other Christmas goodies. The girls and their cousin Krystle did some last minute Christmas shopping. I spent the day playing dominoes with my in-laws.

We spent the night eating, playing more dominoes, and basically enjoying everyone’s company. We had a wonderful dinner of ham and arroz con gandules, (rice with chick peas). One of the traditions in the Torres family is to open one present on Christmas Eve, then open the rest on Christmas day. So when we stopped playing dominoes around 11-midnight, we gathered in the living room expecting to open just one present. When we ended around 1:30 am. All the presents were opened in a frenzy, mounds of wrapping paper and boxes strewn around the room.

We have arrived….

Saturday, December 23rd, 2006

The trip out here was uneventful. We left around 4 am, got in Indy around 3 pm. Mitzie was happy to see her sisters, and it was good to see Jose and Elsie. We found out when we got to Shirley’s house that Elsie, the oldest sister, was admitted to the hospital for appendicitis. It looks like she will be in the hospital through Christmas.

Leaving Town

Friday, December 22nd, 2006

We are leaving for Indianpolis to spend Christmas with Mitzie’s sister Shirley. I have a 12 hour drive ahead of me in the morning. Thankfully all four of us can drive. Hopefully we won’t run into too much rain on the way out. We have done this drive many times and we can almost do it without thinking.

Most of the presents have been shipped to Shirley’s house. I just have a few things that I need to buy for Mitz, I think we have one more thing to get for Amanda and we are done shopping for Erika is done. I am looking forward to visiting my in-laws, yeah I know weird, but Jose and Elsie are enjoyable to be around and Mitz’s sister’s house is huge. I think everyone will be down in Indy except for Denny Jr. who is still in Japan. Elsie, Mitz’s oldest sister, might not be there, we found out this evening that she was admitted to the hospital in Logansport with a possible appendicitis. Hopefully she can still travel to Indy to spend Christmas with us.

Well I better get to bed, we are planning to leave around 4 am.

Pretty in Pink

Thursday, December 14th, 2006

I was at Target the other day and was noticing how much dog accessories have grown. I think there was three rows of dog stuff. Well for the dog lover, it’s like dog heaven. We notice all the cute clothing outfits that are available for dogs. We wanted to buy one for Bear but couldn’t find a manly one. We ended up buying this pink shirt that had Angel written on the back. When we got home, we immediately had Bear wear it. He looked so funny in it. With all his hair, he looked like a football player with all the shoulder pads. We laughed so hard. When I get the pictures loaded, I’ll share them.